December 22, 2005 that was the day it began.... My husband and I decided to try to conceive. That's when all the advice started flowing in..... Just Stop Tryin'!!!

Friday, May 25, 2007

Just Stop Tryin'


My least favourite saying. My least favourite phrase.




My husband and I tried to conceive for 14 months before we saw our first 2 pink lines. This very exciting day came after a much needed vacation away from reality. We had no idea that we were ovulating so instead we just focused on eachother. Believe it or not, we weren't trying! You know how hard it is for me to admit that?! I hate to say that they are right, that good things happen when you are not too focused on it. But, really, how do you stop trying when you are so excited, so desiring and so focused on becoming a mom or a dad? Just stop tryin', something I would NEVER say to a woman who has been trying to conceive for any length of time. As much as I know that it is true no person wants to hear this!

So you ask, what happened to our 2 pink lines? Unfortunately there were other plans for our little baby (aka lovingly called Cletus the Fetus). At 10 weeks we went for an ultrasound and there was no heartbeat. After weeks of severe nausea and vomitting, small weight gain and doubling hcG numbers, I was waiting for a miscarriage. It happened at 11 weeks. April 10, 2007, the hardest day of my life! Now, we wait for our little Angel to pick us a beautiful little baby that we can call ours.

In the meantime....We have to just stop tryin' and wait....






YA RIGHT!!!


3 comments:

Barb said...

Congrats on entering the Blog world!
The name of your blog is PRICELESS!!! And soooo true!
I'm soooo looking forward to reading about your NEXT BFP;)
Love and Baby Dust!!

Erin said...

I am so glad you started a blog!!! I forget that too.... I need to stop focusing and trying so hard... It is just so hard to do!! Lots of love!! I hope we get BFP's Together...

Laura said...

WHOO HOO You're Bloggin!!! So exciting!!!